Welcome!
"Tom Salmon helped our family sort tough things out" Telos W.- Springfield
PRIVATE LIFE COACH
-FAMILY SUPPORT/ MEDIATION
-CLARITY PLANNING
About The Flat Table"CAN DO" Company
The mission of this work is to facilitate honest and level communication. Your commintment to facing and addressing the challenge in front of you is the key. Honesty with productive ACTION fosters results. If serious, read further.
What We Do
Private Life Coach .- This was started because many people have admitted to me they are indecisive and cannot take the first step to sort things out. I will -
1. Keep these conversations private and confidential.
2. Work to refine your main goals and help build an action plan.
3. Provide accountability and guidance.
4. Share with you many best practices for you to take control.
5. Give you guidance to get unstuck and ACT with your inner powers, available to all us. Self trust and confidence comes from adopting a new and optimistic consciousness. Health, Financial, Family and Workplace conflict- YOU CAN GET A GRIP ON!
Conflict Consulting- ELDER CARE-PROPERTY- ADULT CHILDREN ISSUES- LEGAL and FINANCIAL messes- DEMENTIA- NEIGHBOR DISPUTES-COOPERATIVE Divorce-BUSINESS BREAKUPS- LIFE PLANNING by SENIORS
Organizational Training- One hour sessions to all day workshops on leadership, value setting, goal and intention setting, building trust, improving communication and customer service.
Motivational Speaker- at your offsite, team or annual meetings, conferences, or at the workplace.
On Purpose
All power is from within and therefore under our control."
-ROBERT COLLIER (1885-1950)
"Increase the peace" through structured, safe, dialogue and clarity tools which create respect. LOVE and WORTH is now.
END THE PERSONAL DRAMA: Your own created Mental Gymnastics routine. 2 steps forward, 2 steps back "I will start tomorrow." JUST STOP!! Life is SHORT. Drop the excuses. Pull the pin on the grenade and make your life and dream path REAL. TODAY.
FAMILY DRAMA: In recent times, it has become common to hear that a family member does not talk to “that sister or brother” anymore. “They live 2000 miles away, but that isn’t far enough!”. Mom passes and one sibling only wants the silverware, while another quietly swoops in and takes it home.
“Avoidance is the best short-term strategy to escape conflict, and the best long-term strategy to ensure suffering”- Burchard. Avoidance, the approach for those whose stress response tends to be flight or freeze, tends to have many unforeseen consequences. “Aiming to simply avoid and discourage conflicts generally results in family members or co-workers feeling shut down, resentful, and misunderstood.” -Simperingham
Integrating mindful, unemotional, and restorative practices with trained professional help can support the overall health of the family or business unit. Teammates with a new vocabulary of peaceful disagreement and sorting, with tools at their disposal, will be more successful.
CLARITY PLANNING- is when you meet with a professional to brain storm, scratch out a worksheet and have a safe, fair, conversation about pending future events. Next, you arrive at a clarity document everyone signs off on. Often times having ground rules and meetings run by a professional in conflict consulting can help make crooked roads straighter before people get inflamed with emotion.
WORKPLACE TRAININGS and FACILITATION is also available to refresh aspirations, goals, values and mission. I have trained over a thousand military and civilians.
TESTIMONIALS:
“Tom helped me reach all nine of my goals from his workshop on goal setting, including quitting smoking” – Ryan H. – Springfield
“Tom provided our family with support in a range of areas throughout an incredibly challenging year. We are grateful for his wise, down to earth and practical advice, in addition to offering care” – Pamela "Telos" W. -Springfield
Leadership
As a certified dispute resolver, CPA and MA, I have completed extensive training and led sessions and workshops for over 1000 military and other individuals in areas such as leadership, clarity planning, conflict resolution, goal setting, mission/vision refresh and value setting. I am a former 15 year Senior Executive, (SES) & State Auditor, Senior Chief (Navy Seabees 21 yrs), and licensed school teacher.
I am committed to strengthing people and organizations: helping real people avoid unnecessary stress and legal conflict toward family members, neighbors, business partners and provide workshops to improve workplace culture.
My strategies also seek to "make honesty and clarity" useful.
My Approach
Sincere approach to facilitating, coaching, clarifying and getting things on track. By getting stong and clear, together, we can identify your strengths, overcome obstacles, and create a plan of action to help you achieve your goals. "Tom helped me set clear, actionable goals, and I met them all in 5 years"-Ryan H. -Springfield
My Specialties
Helping clients with clarity planning, training, facilitation, and even provide motivational speaking for organizational meetings and conferences. PRIVATE COACHING now offered for those going through life and career transitions and need a catalyst for change and clarity.
Contact Us
Don't wait! Improve clarity and teamwork now!
The Flat Table "Can Do" -and can get- Individuals, Families, Businesses and Organizations on track with stronger teamwork, trust and clarity- leading to better results and a lot less conflict. FREE CONSULTATION!
